When you have an argument with your partner do you use language that you'd be embarrassed of if others heard, or do you allow yourself to be spoken to in a nasty manner without question?
You're on cruise control.
Click off it, regain control and be an active participant.
Pause to notice, don't accept less than what you would for your best friend, don't mistreat yourself or others, don't presume everything is about you, and think before you speak - to yourself and others.
Is your cruise control kind? Is it necessary? Is it useful?
Take control and set your own speed, with kindness, consideration and acceptance of beautiful imperfections.
Until next time, take care, stay safe - and sane - and make kind choices!
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