Me, My Shadow & I
There's a saying that when you point a finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at you. Humans excel at blaming others, at finding fault in other people's decisions, at critising other people's choices and behaviours and for allowing our moods to pollute others. What we're less great at is taking responsibility for our own feelings and behaviours - especially when they're hiding in the shadows of our soul. It's a lot easier to presume we're always right than to pause our presumptions and judgements and looking at why others trigger us so much and what we're, subconsciously, bringing to the table in all interactions - especially, in arguments with our partners. You probably won't want to read this book as it'll make it pretty difficult for you to keep hiding from your shadow... |